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always: Why does it always sound like mum is shouting
always: Why does it always sound like mum is shouting

Why does it always sound like mum is shouting

always: They always try that crap
always: They always try that crap

They always try that crap

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Always happens

always: Bojo always looks like he just rolled out of bed by the-brown-memer MORE MEMES
always: Bojo always looks like he just rolled out of bed by the-brown-memer
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always: Bojo always looks like he just rolled out of bed
always: Bojo always looks like he just rolled out of bed

Bojo always looks like he just rolled out of bed

always: This is only about you if always think it’s about you. by JennyBeckman MORE MEMES
always: This is only about you if always think it’s about you. by JennyBeckman
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always: This is only about you if always think it’s about you.
always: This is only about you if always think it’s about you.

This is only about you if always think it’s about you.

always: what-even-is-thiss: bobcatdump: jaskiegg: mellomaia: aphony-cree: beyoncescock: gahdamnpunk: Honestly!!! This is just psychological trauma in the making THANK YOU I’ve asked parents about this and they always say they are teaching the child responsibility and “respect for other people’s things.” If I point out that the child accidentally broke their own toy they always say “I bought them that toy” or “my sister gave that to them.” The problem is that parents view all possessions as not really belonging to the child. A part of them always seems to think that the adult who provided the money is the real owner If a parent breaks a dish they see it as breaking something that already belonged to them, but if a child breaks it they see it as the child breaking something that belonged to the parents People raising children need to realize that household possessions belong to the entire household. If everyone has to use that plate then it belongs to everyone and anyone can have a forgivable accident with it. It’s okay to deem certain possessions as just yours and ask everyone in the house to respect that, but extend the same respect to your child’s belongings Big mood. I know most of these are talking about little little kids, but here’s a tale from middle school. I had forgotten to charge my phone one night, and this was back when cell phones used to beep loudly when they were low on battery. I kept hearing the noise throughout the afternoon and not recognizing what it was because I’d never heard it before. When I finally did realize what it was, I was in science class and my fellow classmates were making presentations. I reached into my bag to try to turn off the phone, and then the low-battery sound went off, loud enough for the teacher to hear it. She confiscated my phone in front of everyone, and I didn’t get it back until after the weekend because it was a Friday. I was really embarrassed, especially to tell my parents. When I got my phone back that Monday, my teacher said it was important for me to learn this lesson now since in college they wouldn’t tolerate phones going off. Fast forward to when I was in college, any time someone’s phone went off, either the professor would tell them to turn it off, or they would say, “Oh, my bad,” and turn it off themselves, and everyone would move on. I even had a professor who danced around while someone’s phone went off, and it was a welcome moment of levity during the lecture. I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious. God I’ve been reading these posts for a while and each time I am struck with the realization that certainly not all parents were supposed to be a parent “I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious.”YES this The problem is, even if families are forgiving the culture around children still effects the child. I use myself as proof of that. A few times between the ages of 4 and 18 I broke things. I broke my grandma’s favorite Christmas ornament. Her first question was: “Are you hurt?” and when I apologized profusely she said “I’m just glad you weren’t hurt.” I broke a few plates. I broke a couple glasses. Every time my dad’s first response was “Did you get cut?” the second step was cleaning up the broken bits, and the third was a discussion of what led to me breaking it and how I could avoid doing that in the future. Same with spills. Same with stains. My biggest “punishment” from my immediate family was being taught how to clean up the mess I made and being shown in detail how to avoid the same mistake in the future if it was avoidable. There were consequences for my actions, but they were the direct result of those actions and nothing much beyond that. My family tried so hard to teach me how to deal with accidents in a healthy way. They were patient. They treated every slip-up as a learning opportunity. They showed me a lot of love. The other adults still got to me. Teachers still punished and publicly shamed me and other students for our mess-ups. Extended family members outside of my small supportive circle still yelled at me. My friends’ parents still got mad. To the point where whenever I messed up my first instinct was that my dad or grandparents were going to punish me, or yell at me, or hit me, even though they never did. They just didn’t. They always responded with patience and an attitude of “I’m glad you’re safe and I want to help you learn from this.” And I was still afraid of messing up. Mortified. Expecting the worst every time. It’s like… we need to change the culture around this, man. Completely.
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Honestly!!! This is just psychological trauma in the making


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I’ve asked parents about this and they always say they are teaching the child responsibility and “respect for other people’s things.” If I point out that the child accidentally broke their own toy they always say “I bought them that toy” or “my sister gave that to them.”
The problem is that parents view all possessions as not really belonging to the child. A part of them always seems to think that the adult who provided the money is the real owner
If a parent breaks a dish they see it as breaking something that already belonged to them, but if a child breaks it they see it as the child breaking something that belonged to the parents 
People raising children need to realize that household possessions belong to the entire household. If everyone has to use that plate then it belongs to everyone and anyone can have a forgivable accident with it. It’s okay to deem certain possessions as just yours and ask everyone in the house to respect that, but extend the same respect to your child’s belongings

Big mood. I know most of these are talking about little little kids, but here’s a tale from middle school. I had forgotten to charge my phone one night, and this was back when cell phones used to beep loudly when they were low on battery. I kept hearing the noise throughout the afternoon and not recognizing what it was because I’d never heard it before. When I finally did realize what it was, I was in science class and my fellow classmates were making presentations. I reached into my bag to try to turn off the phone, and then the low-battery sound went off, loud enough for the teacher to hear it. She confiscated my phone in front of everyone, and I didn’t get it back until after the weekend because it was a Friday. I was really embarrassed, especially to tell my parents.
When I got my phone back that Monday, my teacher said it was important for me to learn this lesson now since in college they wouldn’t tolerate phones going off. Fast forward to when I was in college, any time someone’s phone went off, either the professor would tell them to turn it off, or they would say, “Oh, my bad,” and turn it off themselves, and everyone would move on. I even had a professor who danced around while someone’s phone went off, and it was a welcome moment of levity during the lecture. 
I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious.



God I’ve been reading these posts for a while and each time I am struck with the realization that certainly not all parents were supposed to be a parent

“I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious.”YES this



The problem is, even if families are forgiving the culture around children still effects the child. I use myself as proof of that. 
A few times between the ages of 4 and 18 I broke things. I broke my grandma’s favorite Christmas ornament. Her first question was: “Are you hurt?” and when I apologized profusely she said “I’m just glad you weren’t hurt.”
I broke a few plates. I broke a couple glasses. Every time my dad’s first response was “Did you get cut?” the second step was cleaning up the broken bits, and the third was a discussion of what led to me breaking it and how I could avoid doing that in the future.
Same with spills. Same with stains. My biggest “punishment” from my immediate family was being taught how to clean up the mess I made and being shown in detail how to avoid the same mistake in the future if it was avoidable. There were consequences for my actions, but they were the direct result of those actions and nothing much beyond that.
My family tried so hard to teach me how to deal with accidents in a healthy way. They were patient. They treated every slip-up as a learning opportunity. They showed me a lot of love. The other adults still got to me. Teachers still punished and publicly shamed me and other students for our mess-ups. Extended family members outside of my small supportive circle still yelled at me. My friends’ parents still got mad.
To the point where whenever I messed up my first instinct was that my dad or grandparents were going to punish me, or yell at me, or hit me, even though they never did. They just didn’t. They always responded with patience and an attitude of “I’m glad you’re safe and I want to help you learn from this.” And I was still afraid of messing up. Mortified. Expecting the worst every time.
It’s like… we need to change the culture around this, man. Completely.

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always: Always fml

Always fml

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always: anothersadgayboy: anxietyproblem: @psych2go Always busy, always irritated.
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anxietyproblem:

@psych2go


Always busy, always irritated.

anothersadgayboy: anxietyproblem: @psych2go Always busy, always irritated.

always: That’s why I’m always right, because I’m always doing stupid stuff
always: That’s why I’m always right, because I’m always doing stupid stuff

That’s why I’m always right, because I’m always doing stupid stuff

always: That’s why I’m always right, because I’m always doing stupid stuff
always: That’s why I’m always right, because I’m always doing stupid stuff

That’s why I’m always right, because I’m always doing stupid stuff

always: Cameras are always rolling by fR1chAps MORE MEMES
always: Cameras are always rolling by fR1chAps
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always: Cameras are always rolling
always: Cameras are always rolling

Cameras are always rolling

always: Always love yourself!
always: Always love yourself!

Always love yourself!

always: dreamsofamadman: somethingaboutdelia: cryingalonewithfrankenstein: This photo always cheers me up a bit. It’s a front-page article from 1955 about Christine Jorgensen, one of the first women to have sex-reassignment surgery. Since the text is a bit small and I couldn’t find a larger copy, here’s what the small blurb says: A World of a Difference George W. Jorgensen, Jr., son of a Bronx carpenter, served in the Army for two years and was given honorable discharge in 1946. Now George is no more. After six operations, Jorgensen’s sex has been changed and today she is a striking woman, working as a photographer in Denmark. Parents were informed of the big change in a letter Christine (that’s her new name) sent to them recently. This article is 58 years old, and it’s more respectful of Christine’s pronoun choices and name than some publications are today. It makes me happy to see a newspaper be respectful of a trans person’s choice of name and pronouns like that :3 Say it again for the haters in the back who want to keep pretending that trans people, or even treating trans people with respect is even remotely anything new. 😎 It’s worth mentioning, that this was kinda celebrated as a wonder of the atomic age at the time. “Look at the power of our scientists! Look at what we can do!”You know, back when America was trying to be the leader in scientific advancement.
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This photo always cheers me up a bit. It’s a front-page article from 1955 about Christine Jorgensen, one of the first women to have sex-reassignment surgery.
Since the text is a bit small and I couldn’t find a larger copy, here’s what the small blurb says:
A World of a Difference

George W. Jorgensen, Jr., son of a Bronx carpenter, served in the Army for two years and was given honorable discharge in 1946. Now George is no more. After six operations, Jorgensen’s sex has been changed and today she is a striking woman, working as a photographer in Denmark. Parents were informed of the big change in a letter Christine (that’s her new name) sent to them recently.

This article is 58 years old, and it’s more respectful of Christine’s pronoun choices and name than some publications are today. It makes me happy to see a newspaper be respectful of a trans person’s choice of name and pronouns like that :3

Say it again for the haters in the back who want to keep pretending that trans people, or even treating trans people with respect is even remotely anything new. 😎

It’s worth mentioning, that this was kinda celebrated as a wonder of the atomic age at the time. “Look at the power of our scientists! Look at what we can do!”You know, back when America was trying to be the leader in scientific advancement.

dreamsofamadman: somethingaboutdelia: cryingalonewithfrankenstein: This photo always cheers me up a bit. It’s a front-page article fro...

always: “This little dude and I have had breakfast/lunch together everyday for the last 4 weeks, always bring him something to eat and he just sits next to me for my entire break at work. My dude.“ (Source)
always: “This little dude and I have had breakfast/lunch together everyday for the last 4 weeks, always bring him something to eat and he just sits next to me for my entire break at work. My dude.“ (Source)

“This little dude and I have had breakfast/lunch together everyday for the last 4 weeks, always bring him something to eat and he just si...

always: justcatposts: We can always rely on cats
always: justcatposts:

We can always rely on cats

justcatposts: We can always rely on cats

always: Thanks tinder, you’re always looking out for me.
always: Thanks tinder, you’re always looking out for me.

Thanks tinder, you’re always looking out for me.

always: Muscle memory isn’t always good by sklarty MORE MEMES
always: Muscle memory isn’t always good by sklarty
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always: You can always count on the Linux
always: You can always count on the Linux

You can always count on the Linux

always: The media is always correct
always: The media is always correct

The media is always correct

always: I believe that I always post at the worst times, but eh whatever.
always: I believe that I always post at the worst times, but eh whatever.

I believe that I always post at the worst times, but eh whatever.

always: You won’t see him eating but Cena will always have a plate at the cookout
always: You won’t see him eating but Cena will always have a plate at the cookout

You won’t see him eating but Cena will always have a plate at the cookout

always: I’d always suspected
always: I’d always suspected

I’d always suspected

always: I’d always suspected
always: I’d always suspected

I’d always suspected

always: It’s always like that..
always: It’s always like that..

It’s always like that..

always: He’s always like this
always: He’s always like this

He’s always like this

always: I always like that person.
always: I always like that person.

I always like that person.

always: They always doing next level things
always: They always doing next level things

They always doing next level things

always: pencilscratchins: i always liked them together because the concept of two full ass countries being run by these two idiots is utterly golden to me
always: pencilscratchins:

i always liked them together because the concept of two full ass countries being run by these two idiots is utterly golden to me

pencilscratchins: i always liked them together because the concept of two full ass countries being run by these two idiots is utterly go...

always: kottkrig: being an exemplary Forsaken citizen, Rad always cleans up after himself
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being an exemplary Forsaken citizen, Rad always cleans up after himself

kottkrig: being an exemplary Forsaken citizen, Rad always cleans up after himself

always: Toph will always be number 1 by themadtitanDORMAMMU MORE MEMES
always: Toph will always be number 1 by themadtitanDORMAMMU
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Toph will always be number 1 by themadtitanDORMAMMU MORE MEMES

always: Mom is always right 😎 by UsedTradition8 MORE MEMES
always: Mom is always right 😎 by UsedTradition8
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always: Mom is always right 😎
always: Mom is always right 😎

Mom is always right 😎

always: Always believe in yourself
always: Always believe in yourself

Always believe in yourself

always: They always doing next level things
always: They always doing next level things

They always doing next level things

always: ups-dogs: Rodger the Dachshund – waits to greet the UPS person… They always give him a treat and a pat on the head. Rodger seems to like the UPS driver…Parkesburg, PA.
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Rodger the Dachshund – waits to greet the UPS person… They always give him a treat and a pat on the head. Rodger seems to like the UPS driver…Parkesburg, PA.

ups-dogs: Rodger the Dachshund – waits to greet the UPS person… They always give him a treat and a pat on the head. Rodger seems to like...

always: Playing dead doesn’t always work
always: Playing dead doesn’t always work

Playing dead doesn’t always work

always: Always happy to help our tiny hardworking friends :)
always: Always happy to help our tiny hardworking friends :)

Always happy to help our tiny hardworking friends :)

always: momrobot: people always say the strongest anime character is goku, next time you see a friend say that show them this
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people always say the strongest anime character is goku, next time you see a friend say that show them this

momrobot: people always say the strongest anime character is goku, next time you see a friend say that show them this