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cell phones: what-even-is-thiss: bobcatdump: jaskiegg: mellomaia: aphony-cree: beyoncescock: gahdamnpunk: Honestly!!! This is just psychological trauma in the making THANK YOU I’ve asked parents about this and they always say they are teaching the child responsibility and “respect for other people’s things.” If I point out that the child accidentally broke their own toy they always say “I bought them that toy” or “my sister gave that to them.” The problem is that parents view all possessions as not really belonging to the child. A part of them always seems to think that the adult who provided the money is the real owner If a parent breaks a dish they see it as breaking something that already belonged to them, but if a child breaks it they see it as the child breaking something that belonged to the parents People raising children need to realize that household possessions belong to the entire household. If everyone has to use that plate then it belongs to everyone and anyone can have a forgivable accident with it. It’s okay to deem certain possessions as just yours and ask everyone in the house to respect that, but extend the same respect to your child’s belongings Big mood. I know most of these are talking about little little kids, but here’s a tale from middle school. I had forgotten to charge my phone one night, and this was back when cell phones used to beep loudly when they were low on battery. I kept hearing the noise throughout the afternoon and not recognizing what it was because I’d never heard it before. When I finally did realize what it was, I was in science class and my fellow classmates were making presentations. I reached into my bag to try to turn off the phone, and then the low-battery sound went off, loud enough for the teacher to hear it. She confiscated my phone in front of everyone, and I didn’t get it back until after the weekend because it was a Friday. I was really embarrassed, especially to tell my parents. When I got my phone back that Monday, my teacher said it was important for me to learn this lesson now since in college they wouldn’t tolerate phones going off. Fast forward to when I was in college, any time someone’s phone went off, either the professor would tell them to turn it off, or they would say, “Oh, my bad,” and turn it off themselves, and everyone would move on. I even had a professor who danced around while someone’s phone went off, and it was a welcome moment of levity during the lecture. I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious. God I’ve been reading these posts for a while and each time I am struck with the realization that certainly not all parents were supposed to be a parent “I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious.”YES this The problem is, even if families are forgiving the culture around children still effects the child. I use myself as proof of that. A few times between the ages of 4 and 18 I broke things. I broke my grandma’s favorite Christmas ornament. Her first question was: “Are you hurt?” and when I apologized profusely she said “I’m just glad you weren’t hurt.” I broke a few plates. I broke a couple glasses. Every time my dad’s first response was “Did you get cut?” the second step was cleaning up the broken bits, and the third was a discussion of what led to me breaking it and how I could avoid doing that in the future. Same with spills. Same with stains. My biggest “punishment” from my immediate family was being taught how to clean up the mess I made and being shown in detail how to avoid the same mistake in the future if it was avoidable. There were consequences for my actions, but they were the direct result of those actions and nothing much beyond that. My family tried so hard to teach me how to deal with accidents in a healthy way. They were patient. They treated every slip-up as a learning opportunity. They showed me a lot of love. The other adults still got to me. Teachers still punished and publicly shamed me and other students for our mess-ups. Extended family members outside of my small supportive circle still yelled at me. My friends’ parents still got mad. To the point where whenever I messed up my first instinct was that my dad or grandparents were going to punish me, or yell at me, or hit me, even though they never did. They just didn’t. They always responded with patience and an attitude of “I’m glad you’re safe and I want to help you learn from this.” And I was still afraid of messing up. Mortified. Expecting the worst every time. It’s like… we need to change the culture around this, man. Completely.
cell phones: what-even-is-thiss:

bobcatdump:

jaskiegg:

mellomaia:

aphony-cree:

beyoncescock:

gahdamnpunk:

Honestly!!! This is just psychological trauma in the making


THANK YOU

I’ve asked parents about this and they always say they are teaching the child responsibility and “respect for other people’s things.” If I point out that the child accidentally broke their own toy they always say “I bought them that toy” or “my sister gave that to them.”
The problem is that parents view all possessions as not really belonging to the child. A part of them always seems to think that the adult who provided the money is the real owner
If a parent breaks a dish they see it as breaking something that already belonged to them, but if a child breaks it they see it as the child breaking something that belonged to the parents 
People raising children need to realize that household possessions belong to the entire household. If everyone has to use that plate then it belongs to everyone and anyone can have a forgivable accident with it. It’s okay to deem certain possessions as just yours and ask everyone in the house to respect that, but extend the same respect to your child’s belongings

Big mood. I know most of these are talking about little little kids, but here’s a tale from middle school. I had forgotten to charge my phone one night, and this was back when cell phones used to beep loudly when they were low on battery. I kept hearing the noise throughout the afternoon and not recognizing what it was because I’d never heard it before. When I finally did realize what it was, I was in science class and my fellow classmates were making presentations. I reached into my bag to try to turn off the phone, and then the low-battery sound went off, loud enough for the teacher to hear it. She confiscated my phone in front of everyone, and I didn’t get it back until after the weekend because it was a Friday. I was really embarrassed, especially to tell my parents.
When I got my phone back that Monday, my teacher said it was important for me to learn this lesson now since in college they wouldn’t tolerate phones going off. Fast forward to when I was in college, any time someone’s phone went off, either the professor would tell them to turn it off, or they would say, “Oh, my bad,” and turn it off themselves, and everyone would move on. I even had a professor who danced around while someone’s phone went off, and it was a welcome moment of levity during the lecture. 
I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious.



God I’ve been reading these posts for a while and each time I am struck with the realization that certainly not all parents were supposed to be a parent

“I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious.”YES this



The problem is, even if families are forgiving the culture around children still effects the child. I use myself as proof of that. 
A few times between the ages of 4 and 18 I broke things. I broke my grandma’s favorite Christmas ornament. Her first question was: “Are you hurt?” and when I apologized profusely she said “I’m just glad you weren’t hurt.”
I broke a few plates. I broke a couple glasses. Every time my dad’s first response was “Did you get cut?” the second step was cleaning up the broken bits, and the third was a discussion of what led to me breaking it and how I could avoid doing that in the future.
Same with spills. Same with stains. My biggest “punishment” from my immediate family was being taught how to clean up the mess I made and being shown in detail how to avoid the same mistake in the future if it was avoidable. There were consequences for my actions, but they were the direct result of those actions and nothing much beyond that.
My family tried so hard to teach me how to deal with accidents in a healthy way. They were patient. They treated every slip-up as a learning opportunity. They showed me a lot of love. The other adults still got to me. Teachers still punished and publicly shamed me and other students for our mess-ups. Extended family members outside of my small supportive circle still yelled at me. My friends’ parents still got mad.
To the point where whenever I messed up my first instinct was that my dad or grandparents were going to punish me, or yell at me, or hit me, even though they never did. They just didn’t. They always responded with patience and an attitude of “I’m glad you’re safe and I want to help you learn from this.” And I was still afraid of messing up. Mortified. Expecting the worst every time.
It’s like… we need to change the culture around this, man. Completely.

what-even-is-thiss: bobcatdump: jaskiegg: mellomaia: aphony-cree: beyoncescock: gahdamnpunk: Honestly!!! This is just psychologica...

cell phones: what-even-is-thiss: bobcatdump: jaskiegg: mellomaia: aphony-cree: beyoncescock: gahdamnpunk: Honestly!!! This is just psychological trauma in the making THANK YOU I’ve asked parents about this and they always say they are teaching the child responsibility and “respect for other people’s things.” If I point out that the child accidentally broke their own toy they always say “I bought them that toy” or “my sister gave that to them.” The problem is that parents view all possessions as not really belonging to the child. A part of them always seems to think that the adult who provided the money is the real owner If a parent breaks a dish they see it as breaking something that already belonged to them, but if a child breaks it they see it as the child breaking something that belonged to the parents People raising children need to realize that household possessions belong to the entire household. If everyone has to use that plate then it belongs to everyone and anyone can have a forgivable accident with it. It’s okay to deem certain possessions as just yours and ask everyone in the house to respect that, but extend the same respect to your child’s belongings Big mood. I know most of these are talking about little little kids, but here’s a tale from middle school. I had forgotten to charge my phone one night, and this was back when cell phones used to beep loudly when they were low on battery. I kept hearing the noise throughout the afternoon and not recognizing what it was because I’d never heard it before. When I finally did realize what it was, I was in science class and my fellow classmates were making presentations. I reached into my bag to try to turn off the phone, and then the low-battery sound went off, loud enough for the teacher to hear it. She confiscated my phone in front of everyone, and I didn’t get it back until after the weekend because it was a Friday. I was really embarrassed, especially to tell my parents. When I got my phone back that Monday, my teacher said it was important for me to learn this lesson now since in college they wouldn’t tolerate phones going off. Fast forward to when I was in college, any time someone’s phone went off, either the professor would tell them to turn it off, or they would say, “Oh, my bad,” and turn it off themselves, and everyone would move on. I even had a professor who danced around while someone’s phone went off, and it was a welcome moment of levity during the lecture. I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious. God I’ve been reading these posts for a while and each time I am struck with the realization that certainly not all parents were supposed to be a parent “I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious.”YES this The problem is, even if families are forgiving the culture around children still effects the child. I use myself as proof of that. A few times between the ages of 4 and 18 I broke things. I broke my grandma’s favorite Christmas ornament. Her first question was: “Are you hurt?” and when I apologized profusely she said “I’m just glad you weren’t hurt.” I broke a few plates. I broke a couple glasses. Every time my dad’s first response was “Did you get cut?” the second step was cleaning up the broken bits, and the third was a discussion of what led to me breaking it and how I could avoid doing that in the future. Same with spills. Same with stains. My biggest “punishment” from my immediate family was being taught how to clean up the mess I made and being shown in detail how to avoid the same mistake in the future if it was avoidable. There were consequences for my actions, but they were the direct result of those actions and nothing much beyond that. My family tried so hard to teach me how to deal with accidents in a healthy way. They were patient. They treated every slip-up as a learning opportunity. They showed me a lot of love. The other adults still got to me. Teachers still punished and publicly shamed me and other students for our mess-ups. Extended family members outside of my small supportive circle still yelled at me. My friends’ parents still got mad. To the point where whenever I messed up my first instinct was that my dad or grandparents were going to punish me, or yell at me, or hit me, even though they never did. They just didn’t. They always responded with patience and an attitude of “I’m glad you’re safe and I want to help you learn from this.” And I was still afraid of messing up. Mortified. Expecting the worst every time. It’s like… we need to change the culture around this, man. Completely.
cell phones: what-even-is-thiss:

bobcatdump:

jaskiegg:

mellomaia:

aphony-cree:

beyoncescock:

gahdamnpunk:

Honestly!!! This is just psychological trauma in the making


THANK YOU

I’ve asked parents about this and they always say they are teaching the child responsibility and “respect for other people’s things.” If I point out that the child accidentally broke their own toy they always say “I bought them that toy” or “my sister gave that to them.”
The problem is that parents view all possessions as not really belonging to the child. A part of them always seems to think that the adult who provided the money is the real owner
If a parent breaks a dish they see it as breaking something that already belonged to them, but if a child breaks it they see it as the child breaking something that belonged to the parents 
People raising children need to realize that household possessions belong to the entire household. If everyone has to use that plate then it belongs to everyone and anyone can have a forgivable accident with it. It’s okay to deem certain possessions as just yours and ask everyone in the house to respect that, but extend the same respect to your child’s belongings

Big mood. I know most of these are talking about little little kids, but here’s a tale from middle school. I had forgotten to charge my phone one night, and this was back when cell phones used to beep loudly when they were low on battery. I kept hearing the noise throughout the afternoon and not recognizing what it was because I’d never heard it before. When I finally did realize what it was, I was in science class and my fellow classmates were making presentations. I reached into my bag to try to turn off the phone, and then the low-battery sound went off, loud enough for the teacher to hear it. She confiscated my phone in front of everyone, and I didn’t get it back until after the weekend because it was a Friday. I was really embarrassed, especially to tell my parents.
When I got my phone back that Monday, my teacher said it was important for me to learn this lesson now since in college they wouldn’t tolerate phones going off. Fast forward to when I was in college, any time someone’s phone went off, either the professor would tell them to turn it off, or they would say, “Oh, my bad,” and turn it off themselves, and everyone would move on. I even had a professor who danced around while someone’s phone went off, and it was a welcome moment of levity during the lecture. 
I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious.



God I’ve been reading these posts for a while and each time I am struck with the realization that certainly not all parents were supposed to be a parent

“I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious.”YES this



The problem is, even if families are forgiving the culture around children still effects the child. I use myself as proof of that. 
A few times between the ages of 4 and 18 I broke things. I broke my grandma’s favorite Christmas ornament. Her first question was: “Are you hurt?” and when I apologized profusely she said “I’m just glad you weren’t hurt.”
I broke a few plates. I broke a couple glasses. Every time my dad’s first response was “Did you get cut?” the second step was cleaning up the broken bits, and the third was a discussion of what led to me breaking it and how I could avoid doing that in the future.
Same with spills. Same with stains. My biggest “punishment” from my immediate family was being taught how to clean up the mess I made and being shown in detail how to avoid the same mistake in the future if it was avoidable. There were consequences for my actions, but they were the direct result of those actions and nothing much beyond that.
My family tried so hard to teach me how to deal with accidents in a healthy way. They were patient. They treated every slip-up as a learning opportunity. They showed me a lot of love. The other adults still got to me. Teachers still punished and publicly shamed me and other students for our mess-ups. Extended family members outside of my small supportive circle still yelled at me. My friends’ parents still got mad.
To the point where whenever I messed up my first instinct was that my dad or grandparents were going to punish me, or yell at me, or hit me, even though they never did. They just didn’t. They always responded with patience and an attitude of “I’m glad you’re safe and I want to help you learn from this.” And I was still afraid of messing up. Mortified. Expecting the worst every time.
It’s like… we need to change the culture around this, man. Completely.

what-even-is-thiss: bobcatdump: jaskiegg: mellomaia: aphony-cree: beyoncescock: gahdamnpunk: Honestly!!! This is just psychologica...

cell phones: Cell phones are drugs
cell phones: Cell phones are drugs

Cell phones are drugs

cell phones: 5G will kill us! Just like cell phones were going to a few decades ago!
cell phones: 5G will kill us! Just like cell phones were going to a few decades ago!

5G will kill us! Just like cell phones were going to a few decades ago!

cell phones: Landlord assumes renters have multiple cell phones, drink, smoke, gamble, play video games, run A/C for funsies and eating junk food is an “expensive hobby” to cut out
cell phones: Landlord assumes renters have multiple cell phones, drink, smoke, gamble, play video games, run A/C for funsies and eating junk food is an “expensive hobby” to cut out

Landlord assumes renters have multiple cell phones, drink, smoke, gamble, play video games, run A/C for funsies and eating junk food is a...

cell phones: Cue the stories about cell phones and wi-fi causing cancer...
cell phones: Cue the stories about cell phones and wi-fi causing cancer...

Cue the stories about cell phones and wi-fi causing cancer...

cell phones: NYC loves cell phones
cell phones: NYC loves cell phones

NYC loves cell phones

cell phones: Old people should not have cell phones....
cell phones: Old people should not have cell phones....

Old people should not have cell phones....

cell phones: What is even going on now? Cell phones caused the Wuhan virus?
cell phones: What is even going on now? Cell phones caused the Wuhan virus?

What is even going on now? Cell phones caused the Wuhan virus?

cell phones: My sister was wanting to find my mom at a concert. This was how my mom thought to use cell phones to accomplish it.
cell phones: My sister was wanting to find my mom at a concert. This was how my mom thought to use cell phones to accomplish it.

My sister was wanting to find my mom at a concert. This was how my mom thought to use cell phones to accomplish it.

cell phones: This generation and their cell phones
cell phones: This generation and their cell phones

This generation and their cell phones

cell phones: Thanks, I hate rotary cell phones
cell phones: Thanks, I hate rotary cell phones

Thanks, I hate rotary cell phones

cell phones: Those millennial middle schoolers are always on their cell phones.
cell phones: Those millennial middle schoolers are always on their cell phones.

Those millennial middle schoolers are always on their cell phones.

cell phones: It's why they call them cell phones amiright
cell phones: It's why they call them cell phones amiright

It's why they call them cell phones amiright

cell phones: My 5 year old just learned that 911 still works on old cell phones. He was playing cops and robbers with his brother… and apparently needed backup.
cell phones: My 5 year old just learned that 911 still works on old cell phones. He was playing cops and robbers with his brother… and apparently needed backup.

My 5 year old just learned that 911 still works on old cell phones. He was playing cops and robbers with his brother… and apparently need...

cell phones: My 5 year old just learned that 911 still works on old cell phones. He was playing cops and robbers with his brother… and apparently needed backup.
cell phones: My 5 year old just learned that 911 still works on old cell phones. He was playing cops and robbers with his brother… and apparently needed backup.

My 5 year old just learned that 911 still works on old cell phones. He was playing cops and robbers with his brother… and apparently need...

cell phones: My 5 year old just learned that 911 still works on old cell phones. He was playing cops and robbers with his brother… and apparently needed backup.
cell phones: My 5 year old just learned that 911 still works on old cell phones. He was playing cops and robbers with his brother… and apparently needed backup.

My 5 year old just learned that 911 still works on old cell phones. He was playing cops and robbers with his brother… and apparently need...

cell phones: Cell phones are prisons
cell phones: Cell phones are prisons

Cell phones are prisons

cell phones: Do they use cell phones in prison?
cell phones: Do they use cell phones in prison?

Do they use cell phones in prison?

cell phones: What part of “please silence your cell phones” do you not understand?!
cell phones: What part of “please silence your cell phones” do you not understand?!

What part of “please silence your cell phones” do you not understand?!

cell phones: 1990s cell phones be like
cell phones: 1990s cell phones be like

1990s cell phones be like

cell phones: LTE 89% 8:09 nextdoor.com/news_feed/ 2) Q Search Nextdoor +) For Sale Notifications More Home Post per Scientific American: "No Reason to Believe 5G is Safe" The film GENERATION ZAPPED will be shown Sat. Dec. 14 Public Library (Events Rm), at Rd. Then, at 11:45 a Building Biologist will talk about 5G and EMFS (what, why, at 10:30 am at R (R-- how)... and effects on all life. Also, on what you can do for protection. Sponsored by We hope you can attend. There are dozens of cell ph. towers and over 100 ("small cell") antennas within 2 miles of our homes. Our authorities are NOT informing us of the 5G implementation, and are not responding to our communications. Why do you think 4G (cell phones, WiFi) are being forbidden or removed from schools in France and Italy? For further info, visit ehtrust.org (research/educational site, with worldwide updates on this critical situation). Thank you. for Safe Technology. DEC 14 per Scientific American: "No Reason to Believe 5G is Safe" Going? olic Library 6 days ago · 36 neighborhoods Thank Comment V This is scary.. Were definitely living in end times.. Read Revelation about the 7 Trumpets they say that 5 have already sounded and a friend said 6th Trumpet has already sounded. https://www.endtime.com/blog/revelation-seven- trumpets-shall-sound/ GOD Bless!! Edited 1 day ago Thank Reply Add a comment... We give thanks to you, Lord Verizon Almighty, the One who is and who was, because you have taken your great network and have begun to upgrade to 5G.
cell phones: LTE
 89%
 8:09
 nextdoor.com/news_feed/
 2)
 Q Search Nextdoor
 +)
 For Sale
 Notifications
 More
 Home
 Post
 per Scientific American: "No Reason to Believe
 5G is Safe"
 The film GENERATION ZAPPED will be shown Sat. Dec. 14
 Public Library (Events Rm), at
 Rd. Then, at 11:45 a Building Biologist
 will talk about 5G and EMFS (what, why,
 at 10:30 am at R
 (R--
 how)... and effects on all life. Also, on what you can do for
 protection. Sponsored by
 We hope you can attend. There are dozens of cell ph.
 towers and over 100 ("small cell") antennas within 2 miles
 of our homes. Our authorities are NOT informing us of the
 5G implementation, and are not responding to our
 communications. Why do you think 4G (cell phones, WiFi)
 are being forbidden or removed from schools in France
 and Italy? For further info, visit ehtrust.org
 (research/educational site, with worldwide updates on this
 critical situation). Thank you.
 for Safe Technology.
 DEC
 14
 per Scientific American: "No Reason
 to Believe 5G is Safe"
 Going?
 olic Library
 6 days ago · 36 neighborhoods
 Thank
 Comment V
 This is scary..
 Were definitely living in end times..
 Read Revelation about the 7 Trumpets they say that
 5 have already sounded and a friend said 6th
 Trumpet has already sounded.
 https://www.endtime.com/blog/revelation-seven-
 trumpets-shall-sound/
 GOD Bless!!
 Edited 1 day ago
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We give thanks to you, Lord Verizon Almighty, the One who is and who was, because you have taken your great network and have begun to upgrade to 5G.

We give thanks to you, Lord Verizon Almighty, the One who is and who was, because you have taken your great network and have begun to upg...