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you gotta: You gotta do what you gotta do
you gotta: You gotta do what you gotta do

You gotta do what you gotta do

you gotta: sometimes you gotta take that leap of faith
you gotta: sometimes you gotta take that leap of faith

sometimes you gotta take that leap of faith

you gotta: When you gotta make memes about spongebob
you gotta: When you gotta make memes about spongebob

When you gotta make memes about spongebob

you gotta: quecksilvereyes: blackqueerblog: Some parents really don’t understand the difference between actual discipline and hurting your kids. This teaches a kid nothing except needing to hide what makes them happy because they’re scared their parents will destroy it. also????? wake up your kid if they don’t hear their alarm????? dont do this???? I get the point on needing to be able to wake up by himself, but 1 - alarms don’t promote that either and 2 - he’s 9.If he’s sleeping in, especially at a younger age? There’s something wrong. Kids tend to wale up early, have high energy, etc. He’s either unable to sleep at night due to the monotony of the day not taking up enough energy, or being in lockdown has been affecting his mental health, which will make him more tired, or maybe he’s feeling ill and sees no reason to mention it because it won’t affect anything, or who knows what else. Don’t punish your kid for sleeping late, make sure they’re okay and maybe, if they feel they need more sleep, add an extra hour on in the morning or something. Saying that if he doesn’t wake up on time there will be consequences, which will stress him out and stop him sleeping, maybe even motivating him to stay up all night instead of risking oversleeping. We don’t have control over when we wake up, and if he’s sleeping through alarms, something needs to change. Maybe even changing the sound will help, but you gotta try and find a solution to whatever is causing him to oversleep, not make him feel bad for it and, in the process, lose his trust.Also, just so you know, postive reinforcement (giving a reward) and negative reinforcement (temoving something bad - such as painkillers removing a headache) work miles better than punishment (destroying something they love and are proud of).
you gotta: quecksilvereyes:

blackqueerblog:
Some parents really don’t understand the difference between actual discipline and hurting your kids.

This teaches a kid nothing except needing to hide what makes them happy because they’re scared their parents will destroy it.




also????? wake up your kid if they don’t hear their alarm????? dont do this????


I get the point on needing to be able to wake up by himself, but 1 - alarms don’t promote that either and 2 - he’s 9.If he’s sleeping in, especially at a younger age? There’s something wrong. Kids tend to wale up early, have high energy, etc. He’s either unable to sleep at night due to the monotony of the day not taking up enough energy, or being in lockdown has been affecting his mental health, which will make him more tired, or maybe he’s feeling ill and sees no reason to mention it because it won’t affect anything, or who knows what else. Don’t punish your kid for sleeping late, make sure they’re okay and maybe, if they feel they need more sleep, add an extra hour on in the morning or something. Saying that if he doesn’t wake up on time there will be consequences, which will stress him out and stop him sleeping, maybe even motivating him to stay up all night instead of risking oversleeping. We don’t have control over when we wake up, and if he’s sleeping through alarms, something needs to change. Maybe even changing the sound will help, but you gotta try and find a solution to whatever is causing him to oversleep, not make him feel bad for it and, in the process, lose his trust.Also, just so you know, postive reinforcement (giving a reward) and negative reinforcement (temoving something bad - such as painkillers removing a headache) work miles better than punishment (destroying something they love and are proud of).

quecksilvereyes: blackqueerblog: Some parents really don’t understand the difference between actual discipline and hurting your kids. T...

you gotta: Now you gotta haunt the house
you gotta: Now you gotta haunt the house

Now you gotta haunt the house

you gotta: When tourists aren’t coming to the park anymore and you gotta visit the forest office to know what’s up.
you gotta: When tourists aren’t coming to the park anymore and you gotta visit the forest office to know what’s up.

When tourists aren’t coming to the park anymore and you gotta visit the forest office to know what’s up.

you gotta: When tourists aren’t coming to the park anymore and you gotta visit the forest office to know what’s up.
you gotta: When tourists aren’t coming to the park anymore and you gotta visit the forest office to know what’s up.

When tourists aren’t coming to the park anymore and you gotta visit the forest office to know what’s up.

you gotta: You gotta learn how to program first
you gotta: You gotta learn how to program first

You gotta learn how to program first

you gotta: Gotta do what you gotta do
you gotta: Gotta do what you gotta do

Gotta do what you gotta do

you gotta: You gotta hustle hard
you gotta: You gotta hustle hard

You gotta hustle hard

you gotta: U gotta do what you gotta do
you gotta: U gotta do what you gotta do

U gotta do what you gotta do

you gotta: All you gotta do is use your toe
you gotta: All you gotta do is use your toe

All you gotta do is use your toe

you gotta: Sometimes you gotta think on your feet
you gotta: Sometimes you gotta think on your feet

Sometimes you gotta think on your feet

you gotta: You gotta do what you gotta do
you gotta: You gotta do what you gotta do

You gotta do what you gotta do

you gotta: pieprincess-andthe-fallenangel: westotanu: jeanjauthor: ao3commentoftheday: You’ve heard of lemons and the Citrus Scale? Well, what about KINKTOMATO? KINKTOMATO is an important concept in fandom. It’s a humourous re-spelling of YKINMKATO - Your Kink Is Not My Kink (And That’s OK). This is the idea that if you don’t like a particular kink or ship etc, that’s fine but you don’t need to attack or shame the people who do. Just leave them alone to enjoy their fics and art in peace and ask that they do the same in return.  KINKTOMATO is the “you do you” of fandom. It’s the “whatever floats your boat” of leaving other people alone. It’s an easy and judgement-free way of hoping that your fellow fans enjoy their content as much as you enjoy yours and understanding that different folks like different strokes.  Having preferences is human. Having squicks is totally normal. Everyone has NOTPs or lines they don’t want to cross. But fandom is a large group of diverse people with varying tastes and interests and backgrounds. Infinite Diversity in Infinite Combinations. Ship and let ship. Don’t like? Don’t read. Your kink is not my kink, and that’s okay.  This, writers. And yes, do bring back “squick” because if it makes you go “ew, ick” then that’s a squick, or a hard “uh no NOT for me” it’s a squick.  (Something that’s genuinely triggering will give you symptoms like hyperventillating, shaking hands, cold sweats, nausea, the feeling like you’re gonna faint, etc, but if it just makes you go “ew, ick” and scrunches your face in distaste, then that’s a squick, my friend.) just to add on - KINKTOMATO is not easy, which goes against the usual ‘it’s not hard to just hit the back button’ narrative but I’m gonna say it. most people think they can do this stuff just fine but usually what they’re considering as ‘things they don’t like’ are things they feel neutral about. ‘I’m not really fond of X but it doesn’t make me want to run for the hills if I see it in a fic’ is not ‘oh wow I really REALLY hate that’. it takes conscious effort to be fair about it. you have to resist the urge to be like ‘this is disgusting and I want to yell at someone for subjecting my poor eyeballs to this’. sometimes you gotta leave and do other things for a few days or even weeks just because you read the tags/summary on something and were like ‘oh god nope no ew ew ew’. nobody really enjoys practicing this type of self-discipline. it is sincerely unpleasant to encounter kinks you are repulsed/squicked by. there have been times when i was lax in reading through the tags or when i assumed a tag represented one kind of take on a thing but no actually it was another, way less appealing one, and it’s not a fun time to get that particular cold glass of water thrown onto your soul. be mature and fair about it anyway. resist the urge to be the fandom equivalent of those white suburban moms who yell at underpaid (or volunteer, in this case) cashiers and demand to speak to the manager. ignore the people who will try and appeal to you by telling you that your aversion is a result of some innate Goodness on your part and that people who make things you don’t like are Evil. And friendly reminder that both tumblr and AO3 have ways to filter out unwanted tags so that you can easily go about your day without seeing content for one of your squicks or notps. In fact, I find it good practice to do an AO3 search for all of my favourite ships, filtering out all tags and ships I don’t like, and then saving that page as a bookmark/favourite to make my future fic-browsing easier. That way, I never accidentally come across something that makes me squick. And whenever I come across another ship or tag that I hate, I add that into my ‘excluded tags’ list and resave it. It’s really simple and saves me a lot of pain and effort!
you gotta: pieprincess-andthe-fallenangel:

westotanu:

jeanjauthor:

ao3commentoftheday:

You’ve heard of lemons and the Citrus Scale? Well, what about KINKTOMATO?
KINKTOMATO is an important concept in fandom. It’s a humourous re-spelling of YKINMKATO - Your Kink Is Not My Kink (And That’s OK). This is the idea that if you don’t like a particular kink or ship etc, that’s fine but you don’t need to attack or shame the people who do. Just leave them alone to enjoy their fics and art in peace and ask that they do the same in return. 
KINKTOMATO is the “you do you” of fandom. It’s the “whatever floats your boat” of leaving other people alone. It’s an easy and judgement-free way of hoping that your fellow fans enjoy their content as much as you enjoy yours and understanding that different folks like different strokes. 
Having preferences is human. Having squicks is totally normal. Everyone has NOTPs or lines they don’t want to cross. But fandom is a large group of diverse people with varying tastes and interests and backgrounds. Infinite Diversity in Infinite Combinations. Ship and let ship. Don’t like? Don’t read. Your kink is not my kink, and that’s okay. 

This, writers.
And yes, do bring back “squick” because if it makes you go “ew, ick” then that’s a squick, or a hard “uh no NOT for me” it’s a squick.  (Something that’s genuinely triggering will give you symptoms like hyperventillating, shaking hands, cold sweats, nausea, the feeling like you’re gonna faint, etc, but if it just makes you go “ew, ick” and scrunches your face in distaste, then that’s a squick, my friend.)

just to add on - KINKTOMATO is not easy, which goes against the usual ‘it’s not hard to just hit the back button’ narrative but I’m gonna say it. most people think they can do this stuff just fine but usually what 
they’re considering as ‘things they don’t like’ are things they feel neutral about. ‘I’m not really 
fond of X but it doesn’t make me want to run for the hills if I 
see it in a fic’ is not ‘oh wow I really REALLY hate that’. it takes conscious effort to be fair about it. you have to resist the urge to be like ‘this is disgusting and I want to yell at someone for subjecting my poor eyeballs to this’. sometimes you gotta leave and do other things for a few days or even weeks just because you read the tags/summary on something and were like ‘oh god nope no ew ew ew’. 
nobody really enjoys practicing this type of self-discipline. it is sincerely unpleasant to encounter kinks you are repulsed/squicked by. there have been times when i was lax in reading through the tags or when i assumed a tag represented one kind of take on a thing but no actually it was another, way less appealing one, and it’s not a fun time to get that particular cold glass of water thrown onto your soul. 
be mature and fair about it anyway. resist the urge to be the fandom equivalent of those white suburban moms who yell at underpaid (or volunteer, in this case) cashiers and demand to speak to the manager. ignore the people who will try and appeal to you by telling you that your aversion is a result of some innate Goodness on your part and that people who make things you don’t like are Evil.



And friendly reminder that both tumblr and AO3 have ways to filter out unwanted tags so that you can easily go about your day without seeing content for one of your squicks or notps. In fact, I find it good practice to do an AO3 search for all of my favourite ships, filtering out all tags and ships I don’t like, and then saving that page as a bookmark/favourite to make my future fic-browsing easier. That way, I never accidentally come across something that makes me squick. And whenever I come across another ship or tag that I hate, I add that into my ‘excluded tags’ list and resave it.
It’s really simple and saves me a lot of pain and effort!

pieprincess-andthe-fallenangel: westotanu: jeanjauthor: ao3commentoftheday: You’ve heard of lemons and the Citrus Scale? Well, what a...

you gotta: You gotta do what you gotta do
you gotta: You gotta do what you gotta do

You gotta do what you gotta do

you gotta: When you accidentally swipe right on someone so you gotta run as fast as possible :’)
you gotta: When you accidentally swipe right on someone so you gotta run as fast as possible :’)

When you accidentally swipe right on someone so you gotta run as fast as possible :’)

you gotta: awesomacious: You gotta be vulnerable with someone.
you gotta: awesomacious:

You gotta be vulnerable with someone.

awesomacious: You gotta be vulnerable with someone.

you gotta: You gotta hush those puppies somehow.
you gotta: You gotta hush those puppies somehow.

You gotta hush those puppies somehow.

you gotta: memegeeks: You gotta do it
you gotta: memegeeks:
You gotta do it

memegeeks: You gotta do it

you gotta: if you wanna learn actual black history, you gotta look for it yourself by CrushMyCamel MORE MEMES
you gotta: if you wanna learn actual black history, you gotta look for it yourself by CrushMyCamel
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if you wanna learn actual black history, you gotta look for it yourself by CrushMyCamel MORE MEMES

you gotta: Sometimes you gotta be their daddy
you gotta: Sometimes you gotta be their daddy

Sometimes you gotta be their daddy

you gotta: I like to consider myself a handyman. Gotta do what you gotta do to pass university dorm inspections.
you gotta: I like to consider myself a handyman. Gotta do what you gotta do to pass university dorm inspections.

I like to consider myself a handyman. Gotta do what you gotta do to pass university dorm inspections.

you gotta: I like to consider myself a handyman. Gotta do what you gotta do to pass university dorm inspections.
you gotta: I like to consider myself a handyman. Gotta do what you gotta do to pass university dorm inspections.

I like to consider myself a handyman. Gotta do what you gotta do to pass university dorm inspections.

you gotta: awesomacious: You gotta love Daft Punk
you gotta: awesomacious:

You gotta love Daft Punk

awesomacious: You gotta love Daft Punk

you gotta: You gotta do it
you gotta: You gotta do it

You gotta do it

you gotta: You gotta do it by tobose MORE MEMES
you gotta: You gotta do it by tobose
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You gotta do it by tobose MORE MEMES

you gotta: awesomacious: You gotta love Daft Punk
you gotta: awesomacious:

You gotta love Daft Punk

awesomacious: You gotta love Daft Punk

you gotta: Well, you gotta give it to him. He’s got a big truck. (OC)
you gotta: Well, you gotta give it to him. He’s got a big truck. (OC)

Well, you gotta give it to him. He’s got a big truck. (OC)

you gotta: srsfunny: Why you gotta do this to me ?
you gotta: srsfunny:

Why you gotta do this to me ?

srsfunny: Why you gotta do this to me ?

you gotta: You gotta love Daft Punk
you gotta: You gotta love Daft Punk

You gotta love Daft Punk

you gotta: You gotta love them
you gotta: You gotta love them

You gotta love them

you gotta: You gotta love Daft Punk
you gotta: You gotta love Daft Punk

You gotta love Daft Punk

you gotta: You gotta draw the line somewhere I guess.
you gotta: You gotta draw the line somewhere I guess.

You gotta draw the line somewhere I guess.

you gotta: I mean you gotta do what u gotta do to get dem spices
you gotta: I mean you gotta do what u gotta do to get dem spices

I mean you gotta do what u gotta do to get dem spices

you gotta: Come on, man. Why you gotta be like that! by ItzRusty MORE MEMES
you gotta: Come on, man. Why you gotta be like that! by ItzRusty
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Come on, man. Why you gotta be like that! by ItzRusty MORE MEMES

you gotta: Come on, man. Why you gotta be like that!
you gotta: Come on, man. Why you gotta be like that!

Come on, man. Why you gotta be like that!

you gotta: Why you gotta do this to me ?
you gotta: Why you gotta do this to me ?

Why you gotta do this to me ?

you gotta: feniczoroark: goldentail1: hennyhardaway1: amoisthobo: This the part of tumblr you gotta avoid BABY! @randomnightlord
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amoisthobo:




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